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July
29
July
FREE

Open Mic Night 18+

Monday, July 29 @ 8:00 pm - 12:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Open to all! Come experience a safe place to showcase your talent and/or get some practice performing in front of others. Performances are open to music, poetry, prose, comedy, spoken word, theatre, and movement that fit within the parameters of our available time and space. We will have 2 mics and a direct input available. To make sure everyone gets a chance to get on stage we ask that you perform for as close to 10-12 (or less) minutes as…

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30
July
FREE

POSE on the BIG screen

Tuesday, July 30 @ 10:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Come hang!

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August
3
August
FREE

Gender Affirming CLothing Swap

Saturday, August 3 @ 2:00 pm - 4:30 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Come down to our patio bar, The Pink Wink, on August 3rd for our first (and hopefully not last) gender affirming clothing swap. All genders welcome! All bodies welcome! FREE

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3
August
FREE

DJ DNLTMS

Saturday, August 3 @ 10:00 pm - Sunday, August 4 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Glitter // dark corners // dance party vibes all night starting at 10:00 // 21+

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6
August
FREE

POSE on the BIG screen

Tuesday, August 6 @ 10:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Come hang!

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10
August
FREE

DJ Jenilla Ice

Saturday, August 10 @ 11:00 pm - Sunday, August 11 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Throwback jams & gems all dang night with yr boo Jenilla Ice -- music @ 11:00 after The Body Party -- 21+

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12
August
FREE

Open Mic Night 18+

Monday, August 12 @ 8:00 pm - Tuesday, August 13 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Open to all! Come experience a safe place to showcase your talent and/or get some practice performing in front of others. Performances are open to music, poetry, prose, comedy, spoken word, theatre, and movement that fit within the parameters of our available time and space. We will have 2 mics and a direct input available. To make sure everyone gets a chance to get on stage we ask that you perform for as close to 10-12 (or less) minutes as…

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13
August
FREE

POSE on the BIG screen

Tuesday, August 13 @ 10:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Come hang!

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13
August
FREE

Super Puzzle Fighter Tournament

Tuesday, August 13 @ 10:00 pm - Wednesday, August 14 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Super Puzzle Fighter 2 Turbo is like Tetris gone mad. Honestly, if you've played Candy Crush you'll probably get most of the rules. Specials on booze and free play after! FREE // 21+

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14
August
FREE

Bingo & Chill: Music Bingo

Wednesday, August 14 @ 8:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

More details soon! 21+

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15
August
FREE

Leo Zodiac Party

Thursday, August 15 @ 10:00 pm - Friday, August 16 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

LET'S GET ALL YOU DAMN LEOS IN A ROOM TOGETHER, THEY SAID...  IT'LL BE FUN, THEY SAID...  21+ // 10:00

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16
August
FREE

HOLIGAY — Madonna’s Birthday with DJ Gay Agenda

Friday, August 16 @ 10:00 pm - Saturday, August 17 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Did you know that August 16th is a gay holiday? Come celebrate Madonna's birthday in the ✨Sparkle Dungeon ✨ with lots of Madge bops and pops all night. DJ Gay Agenda aka Califonza Thompson will be in the DJ boob! Amazing Grace will be on the pop-up stage for all yr essential Madonna drag impersonation requirements. 10:00 // 21+ // FREE with yr membership!

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18
August
FREE

The 4th Annual No Pants Anniversary Porty

Sunday, August 18 @ 9:00 pm - Monday, August 19 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

It's that time of year where we celebrate our birthday the way nature intended -- aka with no pants! Come out and celebrate with us but leave your britches at home! Notable suggestions for non-pant things to wear could be: speedos, kilts, skirts, tires, hot shorts, leggings, onesies, tighty whiteys, overalls, leotards, fishnet stockings, diapers, tutus, chaps, rompers, inner tubes, those one piece costumes of hot dogs or pizza, ya dig? Whatever you decide to wear, make sure you're respectful…

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21
August
$5

Alex Treyz, homepatients, Donovan Moran

Wednesday, August 21 @ 8:00 pm - 11:30 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Join us for a lil' acoustic night down in the sparkle dungeon Wednesday 8/21 at 9:00 featuring the talents of: Alex Treyz homepatients Donovan Moran of XYLEM Doors @ 8 // $5

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26
August
FREE

OPEN MIC NIGHT 18+

Monday, August 26 @ 8:00 pm - Tuesday, August 27 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Open to all! Come experience a safe place to showcase your talent and/or get some practice performing in front of others. Performances are open to music, poetry, prose, comedy, spoken word, theatre, and movement that fit within the parameters of our available time and space. We will have 2 mics and a direct input available. To make sure everyone gets a chance to get on stage we ask that you perform for as close to 10-12 (or less) minutes as…

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28
August
FREE

Academic Probation: Drinking Game Night

Wednesday, August 28 @ 8:00 pm - Thursday, August 29 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

We're celebrating all the bad decisions we made at high school & college parties by playing the games that made those nights kinda enjoyable. The only difference is this is 100% legal and you don't have to worry about the cops shutting the party down! Games we're providing include: *Beer Pong *Flip Cup *Circle of Death Feel free to bring your group of friends and come up with your own game too! 21+ ONLY (and I can't stress this enough)

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31
August
$7

Bizarre: A Drag Show Oddity

Saturday, August 31 @ 10:00 pm - Sunday, September 1 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Bizarre: A Drag Show Oddity features looks from the stirring, the odd, and dripping from the under belly. Featuring ooze & eyes from: PRYZM, Veruca Assault, Lola Vondee, and hosted by Ruby Liqueur. DJ Luxe Posh will be in the DJ boob with all the bops you need to drag yourself up from the dirt. $7 // 21+ Please help us stay on time by arriving at 10:00 PM sharp!

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September
1
September
FREE

Spice Girls Costume Party!

Sunday, September 1 @ 9:00 pm - Monday, September 2 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Jess is throwing a Spice Girls Costume party with all of your favorite 90's jamz with DJ Glen Koko in the DJ booth. Come dressed as your favorite spice girl and spice up your life! 9:00 // 21+ // FREE

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4
September
FREE

B-Day aka Beyoncé’s Birthday

Wednesday, September 4 @ 9:00 pm - Thursday, September 5 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

It's Beyoncé's birthday and that is a celebration in and of itself. Mark yr calendars for a wiiiild Wednesday with all kinds of B-DAY bops from D N L T M S. ???-- 21+ // FREE

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7
September
FREE

RUBYMANIA – Gouge Wrestling Hopscotch Day Party

Saturday, September 7 @ 11:00 am - 5:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

G.O.U.G.E. Wrestling returns again for Hopscotch Music Festival Day Party series! Featuring matches from: Snooty Fox defends the GOUGE title vs Bobby Wolfhert Jimmy Jack Funk Jr defends the NC Title vs Blaqtus Jack No Direction defend the tag titles vs Seymour Snoot & Waylon Maze (The Super Pallies) Roni Nicole will defend the GOUGE ladies title. DOORS AT 11:00 // FREE

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11
September
FREE

Spin the Wheel: Drink Roulette

Wednesday, September 11 @ 8:00 pm - Thursday, September 12 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

We recently procured a lil spinning wheel at the Sparkle Dungeon & it's making its debut on Wednesday, August 7th! Pay $5 to have a go at the wheel and it'll cover the cost of whatever you land on (could be something great, could be something gross idk). BE ADVENTUROUS kids.

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13
September
FREE

The *UNOFFICIAL* Lizzo After Party PT. 2 with Luxe Posh

Friday, September 13 @ 10:00 pm - Saturday, September 14 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Lizzo is back in Raleigh at Red Hat Friday 9/13 and we've got another unofficial after party for all yr dancing needs, baby. If you hit the last one you know it was crazy fun! Yr fave Luxe Posh will be back in the DJ booth after the show and you know it's gonna be a dayum party so come on out and fuck it up. 21+ NO MEMBERSHIP REQUIRED WITH PROOF OF LIZZO TICKET PURCHASE! If you didn't get…

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19
September
FREE

A/S/L: A Myspace Party

Thursday, September 19 @ 10:00 pm - Friday, September 20 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Thursday 9/19 Luxe Posh will be back in the DJ booth with all yr fave Myspace era dance anthems. SCeNe QuEeN aTtIrE is strongly encouraged to truly live yr best Myspace life. Tori and Brittany are hosting so come hang and dance to yr fave guilty pleasures in yr best Myspace looks. 21+ // FREE

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September
FREE

DJ DNLTMS

Friday, September 20 @ 10:00 pm - Saturday, September 21 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Glitter // dark corners // dance party vibes all night starting at 11:00 after Mixed Bag // 21+

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21
September
FREE

City Council Candidate Jonathan Melton Meet & Greet

Saturday, September 21 @ 5:30 pm - 7:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Learn more about Jonathan, his vision for Raleigh, and why he's running by meeting him at Ruby Deluxe.

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21
September
FREE

DJ Gay Agenda

Saturday, September 21 @ 10:00 pm - Sunday, September 22 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Dancing & world domination all night starting at 10:00! 21+

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22
September
FREE

Q&L Sundays

Sunday, September 22 @ 8:00 pm - Monday, September 23 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Queer and Lesbian Sundays are here! Come play games, listen to great music and drink some scissor shots!!!

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23
September
FREE

Queery-oke

Monday, September 23 @ 9:00 pm - Tuesday, September 24 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Karaoke for queer folks by queer folks! Let's do some sangin'! 9:00 // 21+

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24
September
FREE

Video Game NIght!

Tuesday, September 24 @ 8:00 pm - Wednesday, September 25 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Cody is behind the bar with an NES, SNES, & Playstation on deck! Weekly contest with prizes to the highest score. Open at 8:00 // 21+

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25
September
$5

Lilith Flair: A Drag King Experience

Wednesday, September 25 @ 9:00 pm - 11:30 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

The bois are back for the third time to give you everything you didn't know you needed! We're bringing in some fan favorites from past shows and giving spots to first timers in what's sure to be the most energetic show to date. Bring some energy, some dollar bills and maybe even a hand towel because we can't promise things won't get a lil wet... 21+

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26
September

A unique blend of politics, queer community, and stunning performances! Find out which of your local candidates running for office in October, support the LGBTQ community! This is a fundraiser for The LGBTQ Democrats of Wake County, all ticket sales benefit the organization. Ticket link below! 21+

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28
September
$7

Bizarre: Carnival of Insanity

Saturday, September 28 @ 10:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

The House of Vein celebrates 2 years of their sickening monthly drag show Bizarre. Carnival of Insanity will feature a throwback to the cast performing their original Bizarre debut numbers -- with a twist or three. 10:00 // 21+

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28
September
FREE

DJ Luxe Posh

Saturday, September 28 @ 11:00 pm - Sunday, September 29 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Weekend turn-up vibes with yr fave Ruby babe DJ Luxe Posh! 21+

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29
September
FREE

Q&L Sundays presents The Glitterous Ball with DJ Jenilla Ice

Sunday, September 29 @ 9:00 pm - Monday, September 30 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

We are throwing a queer and lesbian centered dance party to finish out Pride weekend with DJ Jenilla Ice in the booth and glitter on the walls. Expect tons of throw-back bangers, suggestively named drink specials and plenty of your exes. 9:00pm - 2:00am, bring your favorite cat owners. Free // 21+

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30
September
FREE

Queery-Oke

Monday, September 30 @ 9:00 pm - Tuesday, October 1 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Karaoke for queer folks by queer folks! Let's do some sangin'! 9:00 // 21+

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October
1
October
FREE

Video Game Night!

Tuesday, October 1 @ 8:00 pm - Wednesday, October 2 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Cody is behind the bar with an NES, SNES, & Playstation on deck! Weekly contest with prizes to the highest score. Open at 8:00 // 21+

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2
October
FREE

2000s Music Trivia

Wednesday, October 2 @ 8:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

We're playing music themed trivia, specifically from the first decade of 2000s. Remember the glory days when you would listen to your HitClips on the way home from school and make it just in time to catch TRL?! (Low rise jeans + body chains are strongly encouraged) 21+

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3
October
FREE*

K-Pop Deluxe

Thursday, October 3 @ 10:00 pm - Friday, October 4 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

✨K-Pop Deluxe is back for October with DJ Slime-A-Rita playing 4 hours all yr fave K-Pop bops! This will pop off right at 10, so don’t be late✨This event is 18+ so bring all yr friends! -- 18-20: $10 // 21+ FREE

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4
October
FREE

DJ Gay Agenda

Friday, October 4 @ 10:00 pm - Saturday, October 5 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Stop in for some dancing and world domination with DJ Gay Agenda! 21+

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5
October
FREE

Jungle Fever: A Luxe Posh Birthday Party

Saturday, October 5 @ 10:00 pm - Sunday, October 6 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

? ?????? WHAT'S UP RUBY!!! It's my freaking birthday and what better way to celebrate than throwing on your fav animal prints and getting wild in the club! ? ?????? I've convinced Jermaine Landon to come out of retirement and spend the night in the glitter booth with me! A WILD EXOTIC JUNGLE PHOTO BOOTH! COTTON CANDY POPUP BY Wonderpuff ? ?????? 21+ FREE WITH ANIMAL PRINT! 5.00 WITHOUT ANIMAL PRINT! (IT'S SATURDAY NIGHT. YOU CAN SPARE 5.00 IF YOU…

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6
October
FREE

Q&L Sundays

Sunday, October 6 @ 8:00 pm - Monday, October 7 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Queer and Lesbian Sundays are here! Come play games, listen to great music and drink some scissor shots!!! 21+

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7
October
FREE

Queery-oke

Monday, October 7 @ 9:00 pm - Tuesday, October 8 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Karaoke for queer folks by queer folks! Let's do some sangin'! 9:00 // 21+

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8
October
FREE

Video Game Night!

Tuesday, October 8 @ 8:00 pm - Wednesday, October 9 @ 2:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Cody is behind the bar with an NES, SNES, & Playstation on deck! Weekly contest with prizes to the highest score. Open at 8:00 // 21+

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10
October
FREE

Libra Zodiac Party

Thursday, October 10 @ 8:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Come on out and enjoy a night out with the Libra Lovers. We'll be taking live music requests all night. Come dressed to impress in your best Thursday attire, trust this is a party you don't want to miss! ?♎️?

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11
October
FREE

DJ Debt Stalker

Friday, October 11 @ 10:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Gritty battle rhythms. 10:00 // 21+

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12
October
$5

The Body Party

Saturday, October 12 @ 10:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

The Body Party is a celebration of Black Femmes -- created for, by, and about Black Femmes. Hosted by Asia, and featuring the talents of local black femme performers from Raleigh & beyond -- 10:00 // 21+

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12
October
FREE

DJ Luxe Posh

Saturday, October 12 @ 11:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Party vibes with yr fave Ruby babe DJ Luxe Posh! 21+

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13
October
FREE

Q&L Sundays

Sunday, October 13 @ 8:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Queer and Lesbian Sundays are here! Come play games, listen to great music and drink some scissor shots!!! 21+

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14
October
FREE

Queery-oke

Monday, October 14 @ 9:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Karaoke for queer folks by queer folks! Let's do some sangin'! 9:00 // 21+

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15
October
FREE

Video Game NIght

Tuesday, October 15 @ 8:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Cody is behind the bar with an NES, SNES, & Playstation on deck! Weekly contest with prizes to the highest score. Open at 8:00 // 21+

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15
October
FREE

October DNC Debate

Tuesday, October 15 @ 8:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

The party's fourth sanctioned primary debate will air live at 8 p.m. ET from the campus of Otterbein University in Westerville, Ohio -- we will be live-streaming it on the big screen Moderators that have been announced are: CNN anchors: Erin Burnett and Anderson Cooper New York Times national editor: Marc Lacey The candidates who will be speaking are: -former Vice President Joe Biden -New Jersey Sen. Cory Booker -South Bend, Indiana, Mayor Pete Buttigieg -former Housing and Urban Development…

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16
October
FREE

Open Mic Night 18+

Wednesday, October 16 @ 8:00 pm - 1:00 am
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Open to all! Come experience a safe place to showcase your talent and/or get some practice performing in front of others. Performances are open to music, poetry, prose, comedy, spoken word, theatre, and movement that fit within the parameters of our available time and space. We will have 2 mics and a direct input available. To make sure everyone gets a chance to get on stage we ask that you perform for as close to 10-12 (or less) minutes as…

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17
October
FREE

What’s Your Pronouns Mixer

Thursday, October 17 @ 8:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Join us for our first ever What's Your Pronouns mixer at Ruby Deluxe! Created by and for the LGBTQIA+ community, What's Your Pronouns is a fun social mixer where we gather for a good time and good music. This is a safe space event where people's pronouns are respected and celebrated. DJ: TBA Pop-up: twofatbats Crafts: - DIY shirts! We'll have stamps with custom he/him, she/her, they/them, and interchangeable ones - Pronoun stamps -- kinda like the "Hello! My name…

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18
October
FREE

DJ DEBT STALKER

Friday, October 18 @ 10:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Gritty battle rhythms. 10:00 // 21+

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19
October
$5

Mixed Bag: Drag Variety Show

Saturday, October 19 @ 10:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Join us Saturday October 19th for Mixed Bag hosted by Ruby Liqueur and featuring performances by: Marco Andro Carter Thundora Thighz Genesis Carter Vidra Jones DJ Gay Agenda aka Califonza will be in the DJ boob all night for yr dancin' needs. 10:00 // 21+ // $5

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19
October
FREE

DJ Gay Agenda

Saturday, October 19 @ 11:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Saturday night bops & bangers starting right after the Mixed Bag show! 21+

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20
October
$5

Q&L Sundays: Eyes Up Here Comedy

Sunday, October 20 @ 8:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Eyes up here comedy is putting on a show on Queer & Lesbian night at Ruby Deluxe! Door opens at 8 show is at 8:30. Be sure to stick around after! We're open until 2am. 21+//$5 cover

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21
October
FREE

Queery-oke

Monday, October 21 @ 9:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Karaoke for queer folks by queer folks! Let's do some sangin'! 9:00 // 21+

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22
October
FREE

Video Game Night!

Tuesday, October 22 @ 8:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Cody is behind the bar with an NES, SNES, & Playstation on deck! Weekly contest with prizes to the highest score. Open at 8:00 // 21+

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23
October
Free

Pumpkin Carving Night

Wednesday, October 23 @ 8:00 pm
Ruby Deluxe, Raleigh, NC

Come hang out and carve pumpkins with us on Wednesday 10/23 starting at 8! We'll provide some pumpkins and carving materials but if you're arriving later you may want to bring your own. Pumpkins are yours to take home! And we can't forget to mention this marks the return of our Spiked Hot Cider! 21+ // F R E E

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